Wedding Planning Tips From Mirabella Weddings
Take your time – and be clear on what you want
Once engaged, it’s easy to get swept up with wedding planning and jump straight in. But first, enjoy your engagement! Celebrate, celebrate, celebrate – and then let the planning begin.
Before you start booking anything, make sure you do your research and be really clear in terms of what you both want (and don’t want!). With engagements typically ranging from 12-24 months, it can be a long time, during which your tastes and preferences can change. Browse Pinterest, Instagram and blogs galore to find out what you do and don’t like, and create a list of priorities for the day. Whether it’s focusing on food and wine, a big blow-out party with music galore, or all about the flowers and styling, by establishing your priorities up front, you can make sure you allocate budget accordingly and reserve enough for what matters most to you.
By being really clear on what you want, you can also ensure your wedding remains exactly that way – your wedding. Once you start planning, you’ll often find lots of family and friends will want to offer input and opinions. Whilst this is often valuable, it can sometimes be overwhelming – so be clear and stick to what you want. It’s your day, so do it your way!
Start with the budget!
It may not be the most exciting or glamorous parts of wedding planning but coming up with a budget is always one of the most important places to start. Be clear not just in terms of what you can spend, but what you’re prepared to spend (after all, we all have houses, cars, holidays and other expensive purchases we need to juggle alongside!). Factor in any existing savings you have, any contributions from family, and anything else you can save between now and the wedding – then allocate a rough split against the key suppliers, ensuring your priorities are covered.
Keep a record of your budget throughout to ensure you’re staying on track – and always factor in a buffer as there are always little ‘extras’ that add up!
Enjoy the process
Getting engaged should be one of the most exciting times of your life – and yet once the wedding planning begins, it can quickly become stressful. Whilst social media may make it look easy, the beautiful photos of the end result don’t necessarily show the countless hours of hard work, prep and decision-making that have gone in behind the scenes.
The average wedding takes 200-300 hours to plan. Support each other as a couple and divide and conquer when it comes to tasks. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when needed, whether from a wedding planner or family and friends.
Avoid wedding-overload by allocating specific times throughout the week to plan – and try to have some days where you don’t mention the ‘w’ word! By setting out clear time to sit down together and discuss (opening a bottle of fizz helps!) you can ensure the process stays enjoyable, and that you both have equal input.
Even if you’re comfortable with the planning side of things, make sure you enlist plenty of support on the day. The day is yours to enjoy, and you want to be able to relax and enjoy it fully (champagne in hand!) without worrying about whether your suppliers have arrived yet or whether everything’s running to time. Hand over the reins to someone you trust and enjoy the day you’ve been looking forward to for so long!
About Mirabella Weddings
Run by Rachel Overall, Mirabella Weddings plan laidback luxury weddings and honeymoons for style-conscious, fun-loving couples. Offering straight-talking, honest advice and support, Rachel works closely with couples looking to design their dream wedding or honeymoon – guiding them through the process and ensuring it is as smooth and enjoyable as possible, managing all the logistics and details, and turning their visions into reality, to create lifelong memories.
Testimonial
“From the moment we met her she was extremely organised, listened to everything we wanted and made the planning process fun! Rachel made sure that we were completely relaxed and were able to full immerse ourselves in our special day. Everyone needs a Rachel!”
Jenni & James, December 2018
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